Feather's Journey with Christ......

2009-08-25T18:27:00.000-07:00

It's been a long two days. I got home tonight and just wanted to watch a really good movie that would inspire something within me. I looked to see what was on and Diary Of A Mad Black Woman was on. I just love this movie. Tyler Perry is an amazing man of God. He has a past and he learned from that past. He finally couldn't ignore God's call and he now lives a life for God. All his movies, while have some bad language, all have a wonderful message. They all involve church and God. Great way to reach people who don't know God and are thinking they are just going to see a moive. I can only imagine how many people he has touched through his plays and movies.

I have seen this movie so many times, heard the message so many times. However, I don't think I "REALLY" heard some of it until tonight. The main character comments to her mother that her husband was her everything. Her mom tells her, "God is your everything. He is a jealous God. Don't ever put any man before God." So true. What hit me tonight that I haven't ever noticed in this movie is, she placed her husband as her number 1 priority before God. She put her husband where God should be. Her life fell apart, her husband kicked her out, her husband beat her. Both thier lives were out of step with God and both their lives were full of anger, hatred, weakness and so on. Satan had full run of thier lives and they didn't even realize it!!!! Yes it is just a movie, but how often does this exact thing happen in the real world? It happens way too often and the solution is so simple and life changing.

The other revelation that I had was that I too have always ended up putting the guy in my life before God and I never realized it until now. I finally see it now. I see everything I put before God. I see exactly what I did and I pray for God's forgiveness. I pray for God to help me NEVER do that again. Now to begin to learn the things that I have to do to ensure that I never do that again. I learned Sunday from Byron's sermon that the couple that puts God first, reads their bible, spends time with God and spends time in prayer weekly/daily has a excellent chance in not ending in divorce.

I think my heart and soul needs some good TLC and time for healing.

Blessings to all, Feather

First Priority.....

2009-08-23T20:20:00.000-07:00

For the next ten Sundays my blog is going to modeled after the sermon series at church by my wonderful pastor, Byron McWilliams. At some times I will use his words and notes, but mostly I will be sharing my thoughts on the sermons as well as how the sermon has spoken to me specifically. I will also be titling my blog posts with the same title as the Sunday's sermon, as to keep them in order.

Byron's sermon series is on "Family Fitness - 10 Exercises to Strengthen Your Family". The 10 excesses are based on the 10 Commandments. I don't think this sermon series could have come at a better time in my life. Last Sunday I talked about getting in step with God. God knows better than anyone that I have not, in the past, been in step with Him nor have I been faithfully following his commandments. Well on to the sermon.

Anyone that knows the 10 Commandments knows what "First Priority" means. The first commandment that we are given by God "You shall have no other gods before me" (Exo 20:2). God wants us to put him first in our lives. The first exercise that we were given by Byron is "Give God first priority every day in every way". Sure, it sounds easy, but really how easy is that? I have the hardest time waking up early enough just to get to work on time, much less early enough to do my quiet time and pray. I mean a hearty quality time and a good, meaningful prayer. I hit snooze so many times that I am usually late to work. That is in no way making God my first priority of every day. That is making sleep my first priority and wow, that sounds bad and looks bad seeing it in black and white. I worship sleep!!!! Oh my, I justified it to myself by saying rest/sleep is good for me. Surely God will understand that I need sleep and be okay with it. Yes, God does require us and wants us to be well rested. Our bodies and our minds depend on sleep. However, I doubt God is okay with us sleeping when we are making it a priority over him. God is NEVER okay with us making anything, and I mean anything, a priority over him. That includes work, family, spouse, children, food, tv, the newspaper, school and so on. We lead such busy lives today that most of the time God gets put on the back-burner for when we have "more time". No wonder this world is the way it is today. No wonder kids have no respect for adults and no respect for themselves or anyone else in this world. Most kids today haven't been taught to respect and obey God. Where did this world go so wrong? When did we stop turning to God and start turning to people?

It was hard this morning when I realized that while I said God was my first priority, my actions don't say that. It breaks my heart to know that I have put the one love in my life who will always be there for me no matter what and will always love me for me, aside for other things. The worst part is I didn't even realize I was doing it. I have become so numb to the ways of the world and it scares me. What kind of example am I setting for my nieces and nephews with my actions? What kind of example am I setting for believers and non-believers with my actions? Does it even show that I am a believer in Christ and that I do love Jesus in my actions? The answers are not a good example at all and no. I don't believe people can see the love of Jesus in me nor in my actions. Talk about swallowing a huge piece of humble pie. Byron gave us five areas that God wants to have first priority in.....Finances, Interests, Relationships, Schedule, Troubles. (it spells out first) Its amazing to see how God speaks through Byron.

While Byron was talking about making God the first priority in your life, I asked myself "how do we know that he is or isn't" and wouldn't you know, Byron gave us the greatest example ever. He talked about being in love with his sweet wife. He talked about how when he couldn't get her off his mind and he would do anything to make her happy he knew he was in love with her. God wants us to be in love with Him. He wants us to have Him on our minds all day every day. He wants us to be anxious to talk to Him, to spend time with Him. He wants us to be so excited about Him and so in love with Him that we talk about Him with everyone we see and know. Think about the person you were/are in love with. Think about how you felt/feel about that person. For me personally, when I fall head over heels for someone they are all I can talk about. In high school at our Senior dinner I was awarded the "Jay-bird" award because all I could do was talk about my boyfriend, Jay. To hear someone talk about that person they are head over heels for is normal, we expect it. However, when we hear people talk about God all the time, we are almost put off. It freaks us out and makes us shut down. People, believers, whom talk about God/Jesus/Christ like that are labeled as "religious" people, like they are the plague or something. However that is exactly how God has called us to be. We should be FANATIC about God and I pray that is the label I begin to get. I pray that people see me as FANATIC about God. What a testament to God. I would be honored to be considered a fanatically, religious person.

I also learned a great lesson over the weekend about me and relationships with men. The most important thing I finally figured out is the biggest red flag that says this is not the right person for me. A man that is sold out to God would respect my wishes and not say anything or do anything that was inappropriate. I will not have to explain what is inappropriate because a man sold out to God will already know what is inappropriate and will NEVER cross that boundary. Oh why couldn't I have figured this out when I was 18, how it would have saved me a world of heartache and hurt.

I have been blogging about my journey with Christ for only a week now and I have already learned so much. I look forward to what lies ahead!!!

Blessings to all, Feather

Revelation.....

2009-08-20T20:01:00.000-07:00

After a breakup with one of my boyfriends, I remember asking a friend, "why does this keep happening? Why do I keep getting my heart broken?" She told me something really profound and wise. She said "Maybe God keeps breaking your heart to mold it the way he wants it". Well that was over 10 years ago and my heart continues to get broken. So I have to ask myself, what is wrong with my heart that God needs to remold it over and over and over again. After all these years I may have finally gotten it. God wants to be the leading man in my life as he does in everyone's life. I have yet to really allow him to take that role in my life. Without thinking about it I choose a man, a TV show, sleeping, eating, working, sleeping longer and so on, over Him. I choose all this over Christ who gave everything for me. You know, maybe the man I am looking for in my life has really always been here, right in front of me. He has been here waiting for me to take a step back, be still and quiet and listen with my heart. My God is all the things that I have always longed for in a man. People say that man I dream of doesn't exist, but he does....God is all the things I have dreamed of. He is loving, loyal, a protector, a provider, He sees me as His princess, He loves me more than anyone ever will, He died to save me, He always listens to everything I have to say no matter how long I talk. God is the love in my dreams. Why have I not seen this before? This revelation is so freeing. It is the most amazing feeling I have ever felt. I am truly loved and adored for who I am. All He wants from me is time spent with Him. Time to build a relationship with Him, time to get to know Him. He allows me to be the leading lady in my story, all I have to do is honor, love and respect Him. WOW

I started this post out to talk about healing, but God led me on a revelation and discovery that I didn't see coming. I think I will just leave it at that for today.

Blessings to all, Feather

Single and Overwhelmed....

2009-08-19T21:31:00.000-07:00

I made it to work today. I was a few hours late, but I made it and stayed till 5. I found out I have to go see my GI doctor in the morning. The ultrasound was normal according to my Dr., so he is afraid it is intestinal. We will see what happens next.

So, I found a devotional today, well actually two. One I purchased and the other is on order. The one I purchased is called "Single to Single" by Doug Fagerstrom. It is a 52 week devotional broke into daily devotionals. It is written by a pastor and many singles, so you get a singles perspective on what it is like to be single and walk with God. I am excited about this one. I also purchased Crazy Love, which I am really excited about. I said I was going to focus on my relationship with God and that's what I am going to do. I am going to immerse myself so deep into his word, doing devotionals and praying. I need to change my walk...it HAS to be stronger and it HAS to start now. I will still be doing the Journey devotionals and when my other book comes in next Thursday I will be doing three different devotionals. It is going to be fun and hard all at the same time!!!!

Today's lesson was on Genesis 50:20 "You intended it to harm me, but God intended it for good" It talked about someone doing something to you to cause you harm, but instead God used that situation for good. I can think of a time when this exact thing happened to me. It was this past July. Someone told my sister that I said all these nasty things about her and her family. Of course I didn't say these things. My relationship with my sister has never been the strongest of relationships, but we are family so we hold it together. I just knew that this would ruin our relationship forever. I made this known, but what I learned that day I will remember for the rest of my life. My sister told me that nothing could ruin our relationship. There is nothing I could do that would make her love me more or make her love me less. She loves me unconditionally and nothing is unforgivable. I know this may sound strange, that I should have known this already. We are sisters and sisters fight, make up, fight, make up and so on. However, my relationship with my sister is not like that. We didn't grow up together. She was married when I four, she had her oldest child when I was 7. We don't have your typical sister relationship that most siblings have. Because of this I didn't grow up feeling like no matter what we were sisters and we were thick as thieves. God used that situation to strengthen our relationship. I took her off of the pedestal I have had her on my entire life. I stopped striving for her approval on everything and anything I do. I feel so much more at ease about our relationship and truly believe now that nothing can break our bond. It is here to stay and we trust each other. We love each other and we will always be here for each other.

Those lies were meant to harm me, but God used it for good in my life. While it was a painful time and it hurt, I am so very thankful that it happened. It forever changed my relationship with my sister for the better!!!

The journey devotionals lesson today was titled "On Their Own". It was about a woman who was divorced and raising her children alone. It talked about all the struggles she now faced of handling everything alone. I think this is the one thing I hate the most about being single. Having to handle EVERYTHING on your own. The bills, the cleaning, laundry, cooking, grocery shopping and so on. There is no one here to pick up the slack when I am sick. No one to take care of me when I am not well. If I don't do it, it doesn't get done. Being on my own becomes overwhelming often and sometimes I don't feel like I can go on. I feel like if I have to handle one more bill, one more medical expense I will break. However, God will not let me. In 2 Corinthians 12:8-10 it tells us that His grace is sufficient for us, for His power is made perfect in weakness. It is so true, just when I think I can't take one more thing, God steps in and takes over. I somehow find the strength to handle that one more thing. My God is so GREAT!!!! He is always there and he steps in just in time to save you, to catch you, to hold you. No matter what the situation or circumstance is, He is there holding you safely, tightly and tenderly in his arms.

I am so blessed and thankful to be a child of God and know that I am loved by Him and to know that no one will ever love me as much as He does.

Blessings to all, Feather

Contentment in His will

2009-08-18T21:17:00.000-07:00

Today I was able to stay home and rest, which is what my body needed. The ultrasound went well, found out that there is a small "growth" about 1 cm big. They do not call it a cyst until it is 2 cm big, therefore it is not technically a cyst, but could grow into one. Yesterday I was searching for a daily devotional, well God is good in His amazing ways. On my way home from the hospital I stopped by the church to see if they still had any of the monthly devotionals for women called Journey. It being the middle of August I was sure they wouldn't have any left, but I stopped by and checked anyways. Well, they had a few left, Praise God!!!! I picked one up, put it in my purse and then forgot about it until just a few minutes ago. These devotionals are short and sweet, but get right to the point.

Today's was titled "Surrendered and Single"....those of you who know me well, know I struggle daily living with the strong desire to be a wife and a mother. I feel there is no great gift God can give a woman than to be a mother. When you become a mother, God is entrusting you with a most precious job, to care for one of his children and raise them by his word. Well, I will be 31 in 2 1/2 weeks and no prospect in sight for a boyfriend, but I get up each day, put a smile on my face and move forward with the day. I always get the usual responses...."God maybe working on the guy so he will be ready for you"......"when you are least expecting it, he will show up"......"God works in his time, not yours"....and on and on and on. I know everyone means well, but it is exhausting living this life. The one thing that really separates me from my siblings and I feel is the reason I don't get to spend as much time with them, is the fact that I am single. I have always been in a different part of life from them, therefore always separated by something from them. I love my sister more than anything and today she sent me an e-mail about a song that she had heard. She said it would make a great wedding song. I thought out loud "does she know something I don't know" then I thought, no she just desires for me to be married about as much as I desire it.

Anyways, today's lesson was about being single, longing to be a wife and mom and all the time getting older while the possibility of marriage and motherhood seems to be slipping away. As I read today's lesson I just started crying. Sat here and cried so hard because finally I read something that made sense to me. I read something that I could relate to and I could feel in my heart. Now comes the part that I need prayer for. In the story Diane turns to her friend Teresa for comfort. Teresa tells her the following "I understand, I wrestled a long time with that too. Finally, I asked God to give me whatever life would best serve His purposes for me and to help me be content with His will." (Journey, August 2009). Now I know I have to find a way to ask God for this, but I also know that if I am not at peace with any decision, I won't stick to it or really mean it. I so long to be held, loved, adored and wanted. Then I think of the song by Tenth Avenue North called By Your Side. "Why are you looking for love, Why are you still searching as if I'm not enough...." Wow, how I know I have hurt God's feelings. Why am I looking for love, why am I longing for love? Isn't the love of Christ more than enough? No man will ever love me as much as my Lord and Savior and yet I still long for the love of a man.

Today's reading also says "Being single when marriage is desired can become a consuming disappointment, and it requires a huge step of faith to surrender that desire to God...." (Journey, August 2009). Not only is it going to be a huge step of faith, it is going to be a daily struggle, daily battle to surrender that to God. I have always been told God knows the desires of your heart and he will give you the desires of your heart. I have also been told "If being a wife and mom was not in God's plan for my life he wouldn't have placed those desires in my heart."

Today, again, proves to me that God's timing is all too perfect. This morning I didn't have the August Journey and didn't even think about stopping by the church until I was passing the church on my way home. I get it only to find out that the very lesson I was to read was this lesson and it was about the exact thing I am struggling with at this very moment. AMAZING!!!!

I am loving this journey so far and look forward to what God has in store for my life. Everyday is a blessing to just wake up and get the chance to serve my Lord and Savior and the chance to try once again to get better at my walk with Him.

Blessings to all, Feather

2009-08-17T18:19:00.000-07:00

Today was an okay day. I made it to work around 10:15 this morning. When I woke up I was in a lot of pain, couldn't take pain meds till 8 and couldn't be on an empty stomach. I ate, took the pill and went back to bed until the meds kicked in. I actually made it all day till 5, but was in pain most of the day. I have been told several times that I should have been in bed and not at work, but things had to be done and I am the only one that is going to get it done.

I didn't do a devotional today because I don't currently have one. I did do better at praying and I am also getting better at persistent praying. I did notice today that while I was in quite a bit of pain, I didn't loose my temper or get aggitated like I normally do. Generally when I am tired or am not feeling well I loose my cool really fast, I get irritated and I can be just plain ugly. Today, for some reason, I didn't do that. I just kept my cool and didn't let things get to me. I know it is the result of God's grace and mercy.

There is also something to be said about getting things off your chest and then letting them go. My heart is no longer saddened like it was this weekend. I am at complete peace with the place that I am at with this man. Being friends is definitely the best thing for both of us. It is an amazing feeling when you know what God is telling you to do and you actually do it. I should have acted on that "gut" feeling weeks ago, but since I couldn't this guy did and I thank him for that.

I wonder if when we are too stubborn to do what God is trying to tell us to do, he finds another way to get thru to us. Any thoughts on that? Also, any suggestions on daily devotional books?

Many Blessings, Feather

"Strength for the Journey"

2009-08-16T18:19:00.001-07:00

I love that title. It was the title for this mornings sermon. It is also what I have been praying for the past few days. For the past month I have been experiencing pain around my left ovary. I didn't pay much attention to it because it wasn't that bad and it wasn't a constant pain. Then this past Thursday it became constant and pretty unbearable. I went to the Dr. and he feels it is a cyst. I was told to take it easy. Of course I don't listen very well and went scrapbooking on Saturday. I was good and didn't lift anything heavy. I have some wonderful women in my life that made sure I took it as easy as possible. Even though I was taking it easy I was still in pain. When I got home I crawled in bed and pretty much stayed there. I somehow made it to church this morning, but not to Sunday school. Throughout these last few days I have been praying for strength to make it through each day, while at times feeling that this is hopeless. The sermon today was about this very struggle. Feeling hopeless in times of insane pain, times of financial struggle, times of emotional struggles. Something our pastor said this morning really stuck with me "God always shows up to show himself strong to those who are waiting for him".

During todays service something was made very clear to me. No matter how strong you feel your relationship is, no matter how many temptations you resist or how many sins you get out of your life, if you still have one thing in your life that is a sin you might as well have 50 sinful habbits in your life. I am guilty in this area. The past month I have been acting in a sinful way in one area of my life. I knew it was wrong and yet I couldn't bring myself to stop that until something hit me like a brick yesterday. God took that option away from me! I was acting in a way that did not honor God nor did it honor myself. Our pastor gave us four things to look at to help you know when you are out of step with God:

Your decisions by-pass God
Your thoughts reduce God. (that stinkin thinkin, impure thoughts, any thoughts that do not honor God)
Your habbits embarrass God (any habbits you wouldn't want your Sunday school teacher knowing about, habbits you wouldn't want your pastor knowing about, habbits you wouldn't want anyone knowing about)
Your living denies God (When you don't depend on God you are denying Him)

When our pastor was giving us these points I realized that I am completely out of step with God. I don't pray like I should, I don't have quiet times like I should, I don't depend on God in every second of every day of my life and I should. We all should depend on God for every need, every concern, every struggle and for every breath we take. "God is bigger than everything, trust in Him always".

I also realized, well I have always known this but it just hit me today, that when I am out of step with God, He will not bless any area of my life. Think about that. Is there something that you are praying for God to bless, but he isn't? Could it be that you are out of step with God?

Today I have rested and the pain is extremly low, but my heart is saddened. I recently had a man look at me with the most amazing look I have ever seen. The attraction was tremendous and he told me he felt like he had won the lottery with me. He told me often how beautiful I am, how hot I am. We got along great, we had amazing conversations and I felt so adored. There was just one problem, he isn't available emotionaly. Most people would say admitting this in a way that he could read would be showing he won. However, I don't see it that way. I am human and I always knew that kind of man was out there. I found him but I can't have him. I know the only way through this is to concentrate on my relationship with God first and foremost!!!! There it is, there is why I feel I have been out of step with God. I was slowly falling for a man that I can't have and I knew I needed to do anything possible to stop it, but I couldn't bring myself to do that. Yesterday he stopped it for me. I had been praying for God to take control of the situation and He did. I know it is the right thing to do, it is just hard when you have had a taste, a glimpse of what it is like to be truly adored for who you are and have it taken away.

Just needed to get that out, so I can move on. This man has forever changed my life and changed who I am. I found a confidence in me that I never thought I would find unless I was a size 4. I thank God and this wonderful Christian man for that. I pray that he finds the peace he needs and is able to move past the hurt and disappointment he is feeling so strongly right now. I pray that he knows I am here for him when ever he needs a friend, when he needs a shoulder or just a listening ear. I pray he knows that he has an unconditional friendship in me that will always be here!!!! I know I may be crazy for offering an unconditional FRIENDSHIP when I have already felt more than that or him. However, I believe God put us in each others lives for a reason and whatever it is, when I feel someone needs a christian friend they can count on I feel it is my calling from God to be that friend.

I pray that each of you have a blessed evening and a GREAT Monday. Our days are what we make them and what we allow them to be. Even though it will be Monday, be thankful that you have been given another day to become closer with Christ and another day to get your walk right!!!

Blessings, Feather

Addition....

2009-08-15T21:26:00.000-07:00

I said I have 12 nieces and nephews. I actually have more. I have 6 in Las Vegas and when my sister married her hubby I gained 6 more. I also claim my friends kiddos as neices and nephews. See, I am truly blessed with so many kiddos in my life that bring me joy.

Good night and God Bless!!!

Changes are coming....

2009-08-15T20:45:00.000-07:00

Alot has happened since my last post. However, instead of writing about past events, I will be writing about a new adventure in my life that I am extremely excited about. I have come to the realization that my walk with Christ is not what it should be. I know I am human and because of that my priorities get out of wack, my focus turns from Christ and my actions are NOT what they should be. When I hit these road bumps I find that my ability to withstand temptation and sin is much weaker. I have decided to make a commitment to myself and to God to work harder on my relationship with Him daily. What better way then to blog about it. I always wondered what I had to share on a blog. I mean my life is NOT that interesting at all. I wondered what I had to give to the world. It has finally come to me, my expereinces as a strong believer in Christ. What better way to reach other believers who are struggling and non-believers who are searching for more or who don't even know they want more. This is going to be a real account of what it is like to live in a world so consumed with sin as a believer in Christ. The daily temptations, the daily frustrations, the days when I just want to give up, the heartbreaks, the laughter, the happiness, the tears.....hear you will read it all. I will share everything, not sugar coating, in my life. I do this in hopes it will keep me more honest and hold me more accountable to my actions. I will also share the happy and sad things that go on in my life. My niece Dawna is starting dance, so there will be plenty of cute, funny stories to share and maybe a few pictures. My nephew, Connor, starts kindergarten this year and I am saddened because even though I have 12 nieces and nephews, Connor was the first one that I felt like a real Aunt. I was finally able to spoil like an Aunt should. Then came Dawna, a perfect gift from God. That doesn't mean that I don't love all my nieces and nephews just the same. The relationships I have with them are all different, yet very precious to my heart, my soul and my life. You will also come to know all 12 of them throughout this blog. I love all of them dearly and wouldn't trade them for the world. My dream is to be a wife and a mommy. However, I feel blessed beyond measure because God has given me the job of being an Aunt to 12 beautiful, talented people. They are all so different and I have learned a lifetime of lessons from them all. I will do a post dedicated to each one and by the time you finish reading about these precious human beings whom God has blessed my life with, I hope you feel you know them as well. I will also tell you all about my parents, siblings and other family members. Even though my family gets crazy and we have drama, I love them all and wouldn't want any other family in the world. So stay tuned and please leave comments. There will be times I ask a question, or ask for feedback for a certain experience or struggle that I am facing. God Bless!!!!

What I've Been Up To!

2008-10-25T20:51:00.000-07:00

Well I realized today that I haven't posted a blog in a while. I am currently awake from coughing my head off. I woke up this morning with signs of either tonsilitis or strep, so I called the Dr. and got some antibiotics called in and got started on those this afternoon. I am thankful to have an Oncologist who knows that I know when I am getting sick and will call in a prescription for me so I can get it under control before I get too sick.

A lot has happened since my last blog. Not really anything exciting, just alot.

My friend Meghann opened up her own Day Spa and it is really cute and she is doing really well. She opened last Tuesday, 9/14 and has done really good for being open for only 2 weeks. I am so proud of her for finally making her dreams come true. I am working for her at the spa on Saturdays and doing her accounting. It helps her out and puts some extra money in the bank account. I will say working two jobs isn't much fun, but the extra money is nice.

My sister had a pumpkin carving party last weekend and it was a lot of fun. I didn't carve a pumpkin this year, instead I decided to take on the duty of babysitting little Makenzie. It was fun spending time with her and it gave her mom and dad a little break. There wasn't a whole lot of sleeping going on in there house that weekend. Makenzie was fighting sleep with a vengence. Everyone had fun carving their pumpkins and there were more this year than last year.

My mom, brother and I went to the Old Sorehead Trade Days Saturday 9/12. They had more booths this year than I remember them having the last time I went. My mom and I really enjoyed it, but my poor brother was getting frustrated with us because we took "too long" at some of the booths. My mom and I would just laugh as he "whinged" about us taking to long. Whinge is the Aussie term for gripping. It has been fun learning the Aussie slang and some of it is really fun to say and I have caught my mother picking some words up. I just laugh because it is a little backwards. He is suppose to pick back up the west texas slang and loose the Aussie slang, but it isn't happening that way.

My brother did find a job so he gets to stay here. He is working on getting his wife and the girls here, but it will take some time since they have to sell their property and get the money to fly 4 or 5 people here.

I guess that about does it. Will post more later!

Weekend at Granna's

2008-09-28T08:40:00.001-07:00

The weekend started for my mother Thursday morning. Bryan and Renee' dropped Connor and Dawna off Thursday morning on their way to Longview, TX. The kids had fun playing in paper and in a box that some of mom's Longaberger baskets came in. The kids also played in the backyard on their outside toys and drew on the patio with sidewalk chalk.

Friday when I got to Midland, I had to go back to Odessa to get a few things I forgot so the kids and I loaded up, in mom's tahoe, and then headed back to Odessa. They enjoyed the ride and then we went to Wal-Mart and they both got a treat for being so good!!!

Friday night we went to play Putt Putt and we all had blast. The bad thing was I forgot my camera, so we don't have pics of them hitting the ball around. Ruddee, mom and I played and of course Ruddee won and I came in 3rd. I have never claimed to be the best at Putt Putt!!!!

Saturday I took the kids to the park that is down the street from my parents house. The playground equipment is so much nicer than what was there when I was a kid. The kids had a blast sliding down the slide, swinging and climing the rock wall. Connor climbed all the way to the top and Dawna tried really hard, but she is still too little!!!

Connor rode his scooter to the park and I pulled Dawna on the wagon, but on the way back Connor said he was too tired to ride his scooter, so I loaded Connor, Dawna and the scooter in the wagon and pulled them back to the house. It sure did add some weight and I got a pretty good workout. At least we all got some good exercise. After lunch we all pretty much took a nap except for Connor. That boy has more energy than he can handle.

After supper we went to Baskin Robbins for ice cream and the kiddos got to set at thier own table. I had forgotten that Baskin Robbins here in Midland had two kid tables that are pink and grey. They are so cute and the kids looked really cute sitting at them and eating their ice cream.

We are just hanging out today relaxing, watching cartoons.....getting a little tired of the cartoons....and enjoying each others company.

Hope everyone has had a great month, can't believe Sept is almost over.

Its Been A While......

2008-09-28T08:01:00.000-07:00

Well alot has happened in the past 20 days. I have had 2 garage sales, which overall had great results, I have been to the Lonestar concert, have had a blast hanging out with my big brother the is weekend I have been at my parents. We have Connor and Dawna while my sister and Bryan went out of town. The weeekend has been so much fun, but so tiring......

A lady from my mothers stitching guild, cross-stitching group, had 2 extra tickets, so my brother and I got to go and enjoy an evening of great music. The opening band was CPR....they are a local band and pretty good. I had my good camera with my 300mm lens and was all set to get some great pics, when to my surprise I discovered that my lens is broken. It would take pics at the 70mm spot, but will not zoom out past that. Needless to say I was not too thrilled about the whole situation. I was bummed because I didn't think I would get as good of pics and the lens was like $300 and I have been told it cannot be fixed. I will of course get a second opinion, but it looks like I will be saving up for a new lens. On a good note I was still able to get some good pics of the band and the evening was nice and relaxing, but a little chilly.

I didn't get any pics of the garage sales, but they were crazy. On Sept 13 my sister and I had one at my moms and started the sale at 7 am. When I opened the garage door just before seven I could see all the feet standing at the door. I couldn't even get things pulled out of the garage so people could move around because there were so many people. My dad and brother and I were all bug eyed at the sight of all these people. They started coming in before the garage door was completely opened. It was crazy, but my sister and I both made some good money. I was impressed with what I made because it was all mainly little stuff. The next garage sale was the following Saturday 9/20 at Leah's house, she is the woman that does amazing things with my hair!!!!! She doesn't have a garage, so it was more of a yard/driveway sale. It was pretty good as well, not the crowd I had the week before, but I still made some more money and then took the rest to goodwill.

I have filled up 5 45 gallon trash bags of junk that was trashed and sold over $400 worth of junk. I didn't realize how many tote bags and purses I had until I started pulling them out of my closet. I was also able to get rid of my storage, which is going to save me $52 a month!!!!!! YAY!!!! I still have ALOT of cleaning out to do, but my apt doesn't feel so suffocating any more, but still have too much crap!!!!

I will also be adding to my patio before 9/30. The apartments of course put in new patio fences and now as an incentive they are doing a contest on the cutest/neatest patios and the winner gets a $100. Be praying that I win because I could use the money. If I win I will have to decide whether to use it towards the stanton crop or getting a new lens for my camera. I may be working a second job by the end of Oct, so I wouldn't be able to go to the stanton crop and if that is the case, it will go towards getting a new lens for my camera!!!!

Labor Day Weekend.....

2008-09-08T18:34:00.000-07:00

So, I spend Labor Day Weekend cleaning out my storage building and my apt. You wouldn't believe the amount of crap I threw away and the amount of stuff I had to give away. I decided to have a garage sale instead, which I am doing this Saturday at my mothers.

I guess helping my mother clean out her house inspired me. Anyways before all the clean out the apt management had new fencens put on our patios, so I decided to spruce up my patio. I am so proud of it that I have to show it off. I did this during the clean-out. I sprayed down the walls and patio with a water hose as well as the chairs because months of dirt had made a home on the chairs. Here are some pics of my new and improved patio.....I LOVE it now!!!!

Abuelo's

2008-09-08T09:15:00.000-07:00

My brother was craving Mexican food so several of us went to Abuelos for supper (didn't get any pics of that dang it)!!!! Before leaving for supper Connor and Dawna were watching a movie in my moms room and I had to get a couple pics of how cute they were!!! Dawna is learning to "pose" for the camera, so she kept looking at me and saying cheese....I had to tell her to not look at the camera, just look at the tv. Right after I took the picture, she looked over at me and said cheese. It was too precious!!!!

Road Trip

2008-09-08T09:00:00.000-07:00

My eldest brother, Ruddee, has been living in Austrailia for 12 years and is finally back in Texas. He arrived in Dallas Saturday morning around 8:30. He spent the day with our other brother, Rickee, catching up running around the Dallas area. Brandon, my oldest nephew, got to hang out with them some as well. They went to eat at Texas Roadhouse in Sherman, where my niece Kari works. Ruddee ordered the chicken fried steak and he said it was enough to feed 3 people. He is not use to the American portion sizes. In Austrailia you get a 1/3 of the fook we get here for 3 times the price.....crazy huh!!!! Needless to say he has been stuffing himself silly with food because it tastes soooo good.

My sister, Renee', and I drove to Abilene after church yesterday to meet Ruddee and Rickee.

We met at Cracker Barrell, where Ruddee again ate "too much"! We laughed so hard and so much. It was great to see my brothers back to being my brothers and acting silly. I haven't laughed that hard, for that long while trying to eat in over 13 years and it was great!!!!

Of course my sister and I made them suffer through some picture taking. We couldn't pass up this moment cause you never know when the four of us will be together like this again. Hopefully there will be many more opportunities for pictures like these, but I have learned to never take a precious moment for granted. You just never know!!!! We are praying that Ruddee finds a job, so that he can be here at Thanksgiving. Then we can get Rickee here and prayerfully our sister Kari that lives in Vegas here! That would make a complete picture and one that would be cherished for the rest of our lives.

I feel truly blessed to have Ruddee home with us and he says it feels good to be back in Texas. I talked to my mother this morning and she said that Ruddee is craving Weinersneitel (spelling?), so she is bringing him to the church on her way to the fair, so when I get off work we can get that for supper and then hang out at my apt till mom gets done at the fair!!!! I am looking forward to spending some time with him and possibly getting him to work on my laptop!!!!

My 30th Birthday Weekend

2008-09-08T08:38:00.000-07:00

Well, it was a huge success with many blessings. I started getting myspace birthday comments on Friday and continued through today!!!! Saturday I went to a crop, scrapbooking fun, and my sister was acutally able to be there! She hasn't made many crops this summer, so to have her at the one on my birthday was awesome and it helped make that day even more special. Jimmie, the CM consultant that was hosting the crop got me a birthday cake and put 30 candles on it plus to candlels "30" so that totaled 32 candles!!!!!

Blowing out the candles was a challenge. I hate to admit this, but it took 3 times to get them all blown out!!!!

I had a great day scrapbooking and great fellowship with my sister, a dear friend and some new friends I have gained along the way.

At the crop, Jimmie started a 3 month long contest. You basically earned points for doing or using certain things and each month you were able to earn more and more points. My sister only came to the last month of the contest and the little stinker most likely won first place. She is a scrapping machine!!!! I had a blast and next weekend we are having a family birthday celebration with the family favorite meal and another yummy cake!!!!

Follow-up......

2008-09-03T08:38:00.001-07:00

Went to my follow up appointment this morning and of course I left there feeling like I know less than I did before. The good news is I don't have Sprue disease so my diet doesn't have to change in that respect. I do have IBS, but they said I don't have to change my diet.....sounds a little strange to me.

This appointment wasn't any different than the initial appointment. Different people asked the same questions and I had to tell the reason why I was there all over again. What are charts for if they don't write these things down and look at them. I was even asked for my phone number.....Are you kidding me. I know its in my chart, they call me to remind me of my appt.

Basically that was the most frustrating Dr. appt ever and the only thing I was told to do differently was take a fiber supplement.....well duh I already knew that!!!!

Hope everyone has a great day!!!!

My mind is spinning

2008-09-02T21:23:00.001-07:00

I just got off the phone from a 2 hour conversation with one of my oldest friends. We haven't talked, I mean really talked, in years and had so much to say. Now I am wide awake and have a million things on my mind.

The biggest thing is my follow up appointment in the morning. I guess I should start with the discovery I made in Aug. When I was 15 I was diagnosed with Hodgkins Disease and was given chemo for 6 months and then a month of radiation to the chest area, the tumor was behind my sternum. This August I learned that one of the main chemo drugs, adryomicyn, can cause weakening of the left heart muscle causing cardiomyopothy. I then learned that radiation to the chest area can increase that risk. This apparently is only common in childhood cancer survivors and doesn't show up untill 10 to 15 years later. I am going on 14 years in remission, so if you know me you know my mind started thinking too much and I started worrying....yes I know worrying is a sin, but still I did!!! I made an appt with Dr. Gadasalli and after an EKG, Echocardiogram and bloodwork I was given a clean bill of health. Dr. Gadasalli said he liked the way my heart looked and the bloodwork determined that there is no fluid around my heart...YAY!!!!!!!

While talking to Dr. Gadasalli he asked why I was taking prilosec and for how long. I told him it was because of the acid reflux and for about 3 1/2 years. He didn't look so pleased and then he informed me that the radiation could have caused damage to my esophagus. My thoughts were "CRAP" one more thing. He made me an appt with Dr. Vemuru, a GI Dr., that following Tuesday. Dr. Vemuru sent me for bloodwork to test for GERD and Sprue disease and then I had an Endoscopy 2 weeks ago.

So the big thing on my mind is my follow up appt in the morning. Dr. Vemuru did a biopsy of my intestine to further test for Sprue, but also put me on meds for IBS, Irritable Bowl Syndrome. Basically I find out tomorrow exactly what is wrong with me. Oh yeah, I have a hiatal hernia which is the main cause of the acid reflux. Apparently when you gain weight your stomach pushes on the hernia causing acid reflux. So the main treatment is to loose weight.....just great, now I will have a Dr. drilling me about loosing weight. Guess I need it though.

Guess I should try and get some sleep. Night